As I attempted to identify the problem I thought about several things, and after 2-3 days I have come to some answers.
Walk away from the crutches, even though its your Very Best friend
First, I am lucky enough to have a great best friend in San Diego. But, it's crucial to know when you have to walk your badoo wyszukiwarka path. Quite often, we lean on the shoulders of the others, and in the process, forget to learn that which we should learn to do ourselves. For instance, I'm constantly hanging out together with himand we play video games. This really is great fun, but lately after our LA trip I have felt a feeling of waste after playing matches. So I flashed my Heroes of the Storm bnet accounts and now I have far more free time on my hands. So the lesson is, find out if you need to develop your own strength, and have the courage to walk away from the best friend. He/she will know, that you need time to yourself to develop inner strength.
I have also learned that my daytime pick up skills are much better, and that I have a tendency to do much better on my own. Sometimes, you need to go out there and watch the world for yourself, instead of resenting others for"holding back you", when in fact, you're the one which's doing it!
Seeing the silver lining in everything
As a child, I used to believe that if I'm learning the piano at the day, all the other children are out there playing at the golden sunset! No! I felt a feeling of loss! Yet, now, I am grateful on some nights when I can just be in the office and work to my heart's content. Only me and my work. Sometimes I might feel like this is lonely and perhaps it is, but that is how it is for today, and I've learned to view it as a boon, I get to hangout with my friends when I need to, and possess my own time without being stressed by work or personal duties.
Being trendy without"trying"
I have leverage the ability to be present thanks to Ekhart Tolle and I've noticed that when I'm relaxed and unstressedI have a open vibe. People today talk to me. "What is that you're buying?" "Hey this elevator is slow huh?" I think that on weekdays, because many people are worried, an unstressed, receptive energy contrasts nicely compared to all of the pent up energy that we see everyday. I'm fortunate enough to have financial freedom at this point in my life, and that I shall continue to channel a chill, open vibe, even if I am working hard at work.
Presence, and inner love
Being"chill" also signifies non-judgement. When we judge other people, in certain ways we're also dealing with our own demons. Live and let live. Your own presence of light is sufficient — which alone could sustain you and put in love to the entire world. Sometimes our self gets in the way, and blinds us from the spark and magnificent of what is already there to start with.
Strive for the finest, judgement Absolutely Free of others
I used to judge others or"despise on them" when they're useless to my goals. I understood now this is the wrong way to look at the entire world. Everyone is on their own journey. In a lot of ways, my negativity towards them was actually at myself at my own inability to make things function. I should have sought out aid sooner, or recognized that I had to meet new folks, instead of resenting my friends. You can't always change somebody, however you could always adore them.
It is okay to be an asshole, sometimes our mistakes instruct us the way to arrive at the right solution Or reach a point of approval, I had to undergo pain. The pain makes it possible to get to a point (hopefully) of throwing off the bags of their ego.
Intimate relationships, savor all the life has to offer. Drink from the fountain
While I used to select the hottest women, I want the deepest relationships in all areas of my own life. Am I drawn to beautiful ladies? Absolutely. But my fascination now is more than only a physical one. I find myself losing attraction for shallow beauty, and more in tune with inner beauty.
I'm still drawn sexually to shallow beauty, but in terms of my relationships as well as an-ongoing kind of scenario, I find myself valuing a beautiful woman who has great inner qualities too.